July 9, 2024 by Dean Bellefeuille
Mom has a green thumb that’s second to none, and she wants to redesign the family garden for the first time in years. She may not move as fast as she once did, but that hasn’t slowed down her love for gardening. This is a perfect opportunity for you to step in—not to take over, but to facilitate her vision, perhaps by providing tools that make gardening easier for her to handle. It’s so important to empower your parents to pursue their interests and maintain their independence with a bit of thoughtful support as needed. Here’s how you can work together with your parents to support senior independence and help them continue to live life their way:
- Daily Living Activities: If daily responsibilities that you once took for granted become more difficult for your parents, collaborate with them to establish more creative, accommodating solutions that prioritize their independence. This might include introducing handy tech tools that simplify cooking and cleaning, or adapting their home to make it more ergonomic. These changes help maintain their self-sufficiency and make everyday life a little easier. Also, consider regular assessments of their living space to further enhance convenience and accessibility, so they can continue to navigate their home safely and comfortably throughout aging.
- Health Management: Be an active participant in your parents’ health management. Attend doctors’ appointments with them, not just for support, but to stay fully informed. Together, you can track treatments and medications, ensuring they feel comfortable and confident with their healthcare decisions. Engaging actively in these discussions also helps you advocate for their needs and assures that their treatment plans are fully understood and properly managed.
- Emotional Support: Nourish your relationship with your parents by joining in activities that support your connection and spark joy between you all. Share stories, engage in hobbies together, or explore new adventures. This kind of support is vital for their emotional health and strengthens the bonds within your family. Frequent communication can help alleviate feelings of loneliness or isolation they might experience, ensuring they always feel loved and connected.
- Financial Oversight: Support your parents in managing their finances by talking over their goals and preferences, and help them learn how to use tools that make budgeting and bill payments simpler. This helps protect their assets while empowering them with the knowledge and resources they need to maintain control over their financial health. Regular reviews of their financial situation can also provide peace of mind for both you and your parents, confirming that their finances are in order and well-managed.
- Home Safety: Enhance their living environment with modifications that promote safety without sacrificing style or comfort. Simple adjustments like improved lighting and accessible storage can greatly increase their confidence and independence at home, making it a safer and more comfortable place for them to live.
At the end of the day, it’s about supporting senior independence and helping aging parents continue to lead vibrant, autonomous lives. It’s about helping them make the most of this enriching phase of life, with just the right amount of assistance that is never overbearing.
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May 21, 2024 by Dean Bellefeuille
Talking to someone you love who is living with cancer can be awkward and uncomfortable for both parties to say the least. Should you jump right in and talk about the elephant in the room, or avoid the C word altogether? Is it ok to try to make the person laugh? What if they start crying? Conversations become loaded with unspoken emotions, and finding the right words isn’t easy. (more…)
May 13, 2024 by Dean Bellefeuille
Providing care for an older loved one can cause major tensions amongst the family. Siblings may disagree on care decisions, adult children may feel overwhelmed, and aging parents may resist help. Effective communication is crucial to bridge the gap between differing opinions, ease the burden of caregiving responsibilities, and ensure everyone feels heard and valued. (more…)
April 18, 2024 by Dean Bellefeuille
No one likes to see the end of the weekend, but having a career to attend to on Monday is important to millions of us. It’s a significant part of our identity, signifying the hard work we’ve invested over the years and accomplishments we’ve achieved. So what happens when your parents start to show signs of needing assistance at home? Will you face a choice between a career you love and caring for aging family members that you love more? (more…)
April 4, 2024 by Dean Bellefeuille
It can be difficult to convince parents to accept home care. It’s a delicate balance between respecting their freedom and ensuring their safety and well-being. If you find yourself in this situation, you’re not alone! We understand the range of emotions that go along with accepting the need for care, and have some tips to help you and your parents get on the same page. (more…)
March 27, 2024 by Dean Bellefeuille
Have you ever said the wrong thing? Perhaps your intention was to compliment a friend on her new haircut, but you came across sounding like you were criticizing her previous hairstyle. Choosing our words carefully is always important, but even more so when speaking with someone with dementia. The words we say and the way we say them can significantly impact the person’s emotional well-being and quality of life. (more…)
March 20, 2024 by Dean Bellefeuille
As we get older, it’s natural to become more concerned about the risk of falling. However, the fear of falling can be overwhelming for many people, leading to a decrease in physical activity, social engagement, and overall quality of life. It’s essential to address this fear head-on and empower older adults to live confidently and fearlessly. Here are some valuable strategies to help those you love overcome the fear of senior falls: (more…)
March 12, 2024 by Dean Bellefeuille
It’s easy for family caregivers to feel alone. When you’re caring for someone else, remembering to care for yourself can be difficult. A recent listening session, however, allowed family caregivers to speak openly and honestly about what they need – and the results may surprise you. Here are some of the key findings and insights gleaned from these sessions. (more…)
February 7, 2024 by Dean Bellefeuille
Do you have any extra time to spare in the average day? If you’re like most family caregivers, carving out enough time to meet each day’s basic requirements may be hard enough. The idea of having regular intervals of downtime may seem unattainable. (more…)
December 18, 2023 by Dean Bellefeuille
Caring for a loved one is often an all-consuming role. It requires so much of your time, focus, and energy that when caregiving ends, for any reason, it can leave you feeling lost. Other common feelings to expect when you are no longer serving as caregiver for a loved one include: (more…)
